Justine's Way

Come...
everytime before i write a post...
i want U(the reader) to fully understand the title....
let's look at it now...
When Faults Have Been Realized

what does this title mean ah~
"When Faults Have Been Realized"...

what is faults...
basically..
faults= problems= lacks= things that people think is wrong with u..
so this is what faults mean....

then realized leh...
what does realized mean....
realized= recognize= understand fully= discover....
so this is what realize means....

so when u put these two word together ah...
u get...
FAULTS REALIZED...
sat ho..
very song ho when u realized someone's faults..
coz when u realize it...
and u tell it to them..
they will du lan...
whether is a small fault..
or a big fault...
whether is just kacau..
or whether is serious....
one thing is confirm...
the person WITH THE FAULT..
will be very dissappointed to realize a fault of themselve...
and the person TELLING THE FAULT will feel very very nice...
song chin!
this is a universal truth...
just like "self-restriction"..
it's the same with everyone..
the point is...
NO ONE LIKES TO HEAR A FAULT ABOUT THEMSELVES...
no one..
absolutely no one...
i'm sure all the readers agree with me...
if u are a reader who wants to go against me...
and if u wanna tell me that u LIKE TO HEAR ABOUT UR OWN FAULTS...
then i truly tell u..
u are lying to urself...
coz u are jus putting on a mask..
to make people THINK that u are "STRONG"
u want to make poeple THINK that u can take an insult from someone else..
when actually...
U CAN'T STAND HEARING ABOUT IT...
true?
TRUE...
very true...

then...
if anyone in this world...
discovers a fault about themselve...
what is he/she suppose to do..
CHANGE..
rmb when i wrote in "SELF-RESTRICTION"..
changing is basically jus another form of self-restriction...
by changing urself...
u are TRYING NOT TO BE U...
which is hard..

back to topic...
CHANGE...
cannot be done by everyone...
then if it cannot be done by everyone..
what will people do...
if they cannot change themselves when they discover a fault about themselve...
there are 2 other things that a person will do when they discover a fault...

1. STAY THE SAME...

by doing this...
this person is saying to the world
"I DON CARE WHAT U THINK OF ME! I AM WHAT I AM! I WILL NOT CHANGE MYSELF!"

2. BECOME EVEN WORSE

blame their faults on other people...
make it look as if..
"I DIN DO ANYTHING WRONG LEH!
U ALL ARE THE ONE THAT STARTED!
U ARE THE CAUSE OF MY FAULTS!!"
and become even worse...
make people hate THIS PERSON EVEN MORE

by doing this..
this person will be HATED by others even more...
even even even more...
no one will want to be ur frend anymore...
no one will support u with ur rubbish anymore...
no one will listen to u....
no one CARES anymore...

because if people around u can change FOR U!
why can't U change for the people around U??!!!

this is bullshit...
100% bullshit imported from BULLSHIT LAND(best bullshit in the world)
both of the things this that UNCHANGABLE people do is BULLSHIT....

mayb u(the reader) are wondering...
why i suddenly write this post...
i duno whether i should write out the story hear or not..
i think better not...
if u wanna noe...
ask me face to face..
or sms...
or msn...
or telephone...
or fax..
or write a letter to me...
or tell my mother...
or come to my house ask...
no matter what u do..
i will be very happy to explain to u...
but..
if u lazy to ask..
then i explain to u..
here...
LONG STORY SHORTENED...

do u like it when people who cannot even control themselves try to control u??...
do u like it if people got their own problem and blame it on u???
do u like it when people have their own anger and let it out on u???

the answer to all the questions above it NO...
for everyone on this earth...
the answer is no..

a dog doesn't like a cat to teach it how to bark..
a monkey doesn't like a fish to teach it how to climb a tree...
a chicken doesn't like a gost to teach it how to lay an egg...
BMW don't like TOYOTA to teach them hwo to make a car...
NOKIA don't like SONY ERICSSON to teach them how to make phone....

U don't like people to tell u that u are wrong...
well i feel the same...
so when i get attacked like that...
FOR NO REASON...
i am left with no choice but to REALIZE UR FAULTS FOR U....
however u react to me...
is none of my business...
I DON'T CARE...
AT ALL...

if u didn't do what u did....
i wouldn't have done what i did...

behsong all u want...
WRITE and RUB all u want...
i can surely catch up...
say all u want....
i can win u anyday...
ANYDAY.....
there are so many faults that i could have caught u with..
when u talk..
when u write...
the way u do ur job...
but i don't wan to...
coz i got think of u...
i don wan to embarrass u...
in front of ur students...

so i end my post...
with 2 conclusions...


1.NO ONE LIKES TO HEAR A FAULT ABOUT THEMSELVE.

2.NO ONE LIKE SOMEONE ELSE TO TELL THEM THEIR FAULT WHEN THEY HAVE FAULTS OF THEIR OWN.

THANK U!